Most â€œnaturalsâ€ believe that you donâ€™t need any routines – you can just go out and be yourself and have fun and women will come to you.Â Just be yourself – isnâ€™t that what most of us were trying to do before we discovered dating science, that it didnâ€™t work back then, and that it sure as heck wonâ€™t help you get better now? Sure it is!
Thatâ€™s why a a step-by-step approach is some valuable. When you have large, complex problems like â€œsee that beautiful woman over there; how do I get her into bed? (or make her my girlfriend?),â€ itâ€™s really helpful to break it down into specific tasks that come one after another.Â First you do X, until Y happens, and then you do Z.
And â€œbeing yourselfâ€ doesnâ€™t help if you draw a mental blank or run out of things to say.Â Sure itâ€™s easy to tell someone just to make conversation when he runs out of things to say, but when youâ€™re talking to a gorgeous woman and her friends are trying to drag her away and sheâ€™s looking at you expectantly to see if thereâ€™s anything more to you than a well-delivered opening line… you have to have stuff ready to go.Â And it has to be good.
â€œNaturalsâ€ have completely forgotten about all the years they have spent picking up women.Â They forgot entirely about the learning process that has allowed them to become the â€œnaturalâ€ who can effortlessly pick up hot chicks.
Natural game is simply how men act when they are ALREADY good with women.
You learn natural game by going out and practicing, as much as possible, for as long as possible.Â You practice with the best tools available â€“ the structure and formula fromMagic Bullets. Natural game is learned by doing thousands of approaches. It comes from hard work, a good attitude, patterns of success and a willingness to push through some failure.Â It comes from making good friends who will push you, attending bootcamps and seminars and then going out and doing all of it all over again.Â If you do that you will have natural game.
People who all of a sudden â€œdiscoverâ€ natural game actually reveal more about their own dating science skills and development than they do about how to teach others.Â All it means is that they have gotten good enough with the basic structure and with routines that they are now able to take the training wheels off.Â They discover that now that they have internalized the right behaviors and intuitions they donâ€™t need to slavishly follow structures (routines etc.) anymore and can improvise.
When you see PUA Cajun â€“ he is improvising, taking advantage of possible shortcuts and so on.Â Thatâ€™s because he is good enough to be able to â€œfeelâ€ the game and be â€œnatural.â€ You simply need to get the Beyond Words Course by Cajun.
P.S. If you donâ€™t know who Cajun isâ€¦Man, you need to see this guy in field: