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Jan 9, 2017 - Jeffy PUA, Online Dating    No Comments

Top 3 Online Dating Mistakes Most Guys are still Making

Online dating is extremely convenient – you can browse and arrange dates with an endless number of women without even going out. However, that doesn’t mean that it’s easy. In fact, most men make the same mistakes when it comes to online dates. So, without further ado, here are the

Top 3 Online Dating Mistakes Most Guys are still Making:

1) Not having a profile picture/Having a bad picture.

This one is easy: Not having an profile picture makes you basically invisible. No one will really bother to take to time to answer or even contact you, if you don’t even take the trouble to upload a picture of you.

But of course, it’s not enough having some picture. The picture needs to be good, it hast o stand out from the crowd. Most guys on online dating sites have bad pictures, that is: you can’t really see your face, it’s blurred, it’s a selfie (ultimate no-go) or even worse a bare-chested selfie in front of a mirror with stains of toothpaste on it.

In short: You definitely need the time to create and upload a good picture. Ask a friend with a professional camera to make some pictures of you and you will definitely stand out from the crown.

Good-looking pictures are an absolute minimum when it comes to online dating. And yes, pictures, not picture – you need more than one. One that shows your face (no special face expression, not looking into the camera), one whole-body-shot (smiling/in-motion) and one with friends/other people, preferable also women.

The last one is important because it shows women that you actually are a social being and/or preselection. You can write novels about how cool you are, but firstly most visitors won’t even read it and secondly, only seeing is believing.

You can upload more pictures, preferably travel or activity pics, but more than 5 is actually a try-hard, showing neediness.

2) Writing „empty“ or boring messages.

„Empty“ means messages that are useless like „Hi“, „Hey“, „What’s up“, „How is it going“, „I like your …“

They are useless because most girls on online dating sites get tons oft hem daily and there is basically no reason to answer (unless they recognize you’re a famous actor from your profile pic). By sending stuff like this you assume she will do the work and will engage a converstation – really?

But there are also boring because clichéd messages like „you have beautiful eyes“, etc. These are either too familiar or obviously dishonest or/and needy.

Also, avoid boring interview questions like „what do you do?“, „where do you live“, etc.

In fact, what you send isn’t as important as what you don’t send. So, at all cost, avoid teh type of messages mentioned above as well as sexual messages of any kind.

The idea is to create a connection to her and every message is a step to this goal. So try to be creative and funny when messaging – this is not „poking“ on facebook. If you’re having trouble with creating interesting messages, this Online Dating Mastery Program will help.

3) Putting everything on one card.

This means concetrating on one girl instead of sending tons of messages to different girls and increasing your chances of success tremendously.

By all means concrentrate on one girl that you like (from her pictures, because obviously you don’t know her in real life), but do also send messages to other girls so you won’t be devastated when she suddenly decides to end your the conversation seemlingly for no reason.

This also means that you shoulde have profiles on different online dating sites not only because you can contact much more girls, but also because they are slightly different and different types of girls use differentv sites.

There are great dating site reviews on fuck.com if you don’t know which sites to use. fuck.com is magazine about dating and relationships as well as dating site reviews.

May 20, 2014 - Online Dating    No Comments

“DONNA CERCA UOMO”, the social network in Italy for those who are looking for true emotions

Suggested for those who are looking for their soulmate and don’t know how to find them. Ideal for those who want to find real friendship starting from a single picture to become fascinated by details. Intended for those who want hot emotions and can’t figure out how to find them.

The solution can be found in one social network. It is revolutionary in comparison with the others of the same kind: here, relationships, passions, pleasures and feelings are real. And, above all, you don’t need any subscription. All for free, all out in the open and extremely easy. Forget about al the time spent in order to fill in forms with your personal data and logins: here you travel really fast to get in the happiness dimension.

Here you are: the number one social network in Italy: Donna cerca uomo. Everyday, dozens of malicious, hot and sensual announcements are added. There are announcements for every taste, in order to satisfy men who are looking for the right woman.

Meetings, dates, long distance relationships: nothing is forbidden to satisfy passion. Announcements published by the most beautiful girls on the Internet, Italians and foreigners. You just need to browse the website in order to find the man or woman of your dreams: at www.donnecercauomo.com you can choose what is suitable for you. You only need to find it among the thousands of announcements added by men and women who have already chosen this social network to register their profiles.

Special meetings with special people, in the true respect of privacy and discretion. The website is completely free and is easy to use on PC, IPad and smartphones. Handy, convenient and innovative.

You don’t have to subscribe, you can browse the announcements just with one mouse click. The rest is up to your curiosity. Too many websites have made people sick with complicated subscriptions. Therefore, the idea of this new social network: no waste of time or con. You can directly access the world of free meetings, without any additional costs.

There are not traps for the users, who can access all the sections of the website. Other social networks, such as Badoo and Meetic, limit access disadvantageing those who are looking for strong feelings. Here, everybody is on the same level: men and women have the possibility to meet easily and without wasting time with logins and passwords, or being asked for money.

In order to help the users, the website asks you to indicate what you are looking for, through a key-word, city and category. Selecting the area, you will have the possibility to find out the woman who wants to meet a man, in order to live intense moments of pleasure.

Of course, this adult social network thinks about the rest, by searching in its database for the person who fits your needs! Once you find her, you just have to enter her phone number to arrange a meeting or just keep in touch.

As we said before, the strong point of this social network for adult is to offer only true, real and checked out announcements: all the pictures belong to beautiful girls who are waiting to be surprised, charmed and… met!

But there is more: the other strong point of this website is to create a net around itself! A spontaneous net, about which the user is not aware until the point in which he will be overwhelmed with phone calls! Indeed, “Donna cerca uomo” offers a unique opportunity: the announcement you insert is automatically published on more than thirty portals (such as bakekaincontri, kijijiincontri) which gives the announcement a really high visibility and a great number of contacts. That’s right: thirty portals of meetings which will spread your announcement. With such visibility you can easily find the man you are looking for.

But there is another opportunity for all the Italian women! If you are a female and wish to publish your announcement with the highest visibility, you can exploit the advertising space available on the website. The publishing of an announcement is totally free and guarantees a special visibility, in order to obtain thousands of contacts. Women as well have the right to gratify their desire of pleasure: with “Donna cerca uomo” you can satisfy your hunger for men.

This is an opportunity you can’t lose! It is the best showcase for those who look for meetings on the Internet!

Is there something more to find out? No, there isn’t… so, perhaps it is the right moment to go and browse the website and discover all its passion and strength.

Good luck, good meetings and we wish you many sweet emotions.

Jan 26, 2012 - Online Dating, PUA Cajun    No Comments

How to Pick Up Women ONLINE – Cajun’s New Book Revealed!

Derek’s Tips to Improve Your Online Dating Tonight:

Big news if you want to know how to pick up women online!
Derek Cajun created the ultimate online game manual: The Gentleman’s Guide to Online Game. It’s full of examples, pictures, message logs, it goes step-by-step through the key elements of online dating, including:

– How to build a profile
– How to choose your pictures
– What to send in your first message
– How to get her into chat, text, phone, and in-person
– How to set expectations in advance (relationship vs. fun)
– Chat and message logs so you can see the system in real life
– How to meet women off Facebook

Check It Out Here:

And Cajun is guaranteeing that ANY man who uses his system will have more dates with quality women within just 30 days (or you get every penny back).

About Cajun…

If you’re new to this site, you might not know Cajun. He’s been keeping his head down the last year or two, busy with a ton of testing and live trials of the Gentleman’s Guide.

But before he was known as a world expert in online game for men, he was famous for winning the Keys to the VIP hidden competition pickup TV show. This was no vanity project, where a guy gets to approach 100 women and choose the infield footage he likes. He put his name, and the Love Systems name, on the line without so much as a safety net. Cameras followed his every move at a nightclub. Judges watched….

…and the 5’6 Cajun mopped the floor with the competition. “The best we’ve ever seen,” said one of the judges.

You can actually watch all the infield footage on the Gentleman’s Guide site – just click over to the “Success Stories” tab and look on the right-hand side. Here’s a link to the site again:

The Gentleman’s Guide to Online Dating

In other words, with Cajun you know you’re getting the straight goods. He’s not some guy who dates online because he can’t attract women day-to-day. He’s literally one of the best in the world – and he brings THAT expertise to the online world.



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Online Dating Part 2

Ok, by now you know that complimenting a girl on her looks is a major mistake – not only in online dating. So what are the other mistakes that you shouldn’t avoid chatting with girls on facebook, myspace aso.?

Another big mistake is writing too long messages and chatting too long in general.

The reason is that the girl doesn’t know you and isn’t sure, whether to spend her precious time on you. She obviously has to take some to read long messages, which are in most cases boring as most guys don’t know how to tell an interesting story that demonstrate higher value in a short way. This leads to negative feelings inside her, which means she won’t contact you again.

So, instead of writing long messages about you, where you live and what you do – and writing endlessly in general – keep it short and get to the point. Girls like guys who know what they want and value their own time. After about short 10 messages you can say something like this:

“I get pretty busy, so you won’t find me online often. Let’s continue this on the phone, here’s my number. Or, if you’re old-fashioned, just mail me yours.”

Here is what Neil Strauss has to say on online dating.

P.S. If you’re unsure, how to improve your profile to get girls contacting you – take a look at the brand-new (2008) 224-page e-book called “The Online Game“.

Online Dating

Online Dating is pretty popular these days. By now, everyone seems to be on facebook. It’s easy to meet new people on the net, but how about meeting them in real life?

Here’swhat normally happens: you “poke” a beautiful girl online, write her a message like “Hi! I like your…/ your so sweet” aso. and never get a response. And that’s what 95 % of the guys do – that’s what I thought.

To check my suspicion, I registered an personal with a picture of a hottie and added some rare personal details like “sex and the city” as the favourite serial aso. One weeks later my mailbox was full with 13 friend requests and 21 mails from guys letting “me” know how hot, nice, cute aso. “I”  was.

It was really mean to see what those hot girls have to read again and again – it’s the same, stupid, uninspired stuff. The women are’nt answering this stuff…And guess what – you wouldn’t either!

So, giving compliments is one of the biggest mistakes you can make in online dating. If the girl is beautiful, never make compliments on her looks. She hears (and reads) it all the time and to her you’re just the next guy who wants in her pants.

Instead you can use a “NEG” like “Hey, I like you hair color. Is it real?” You’re right, there’s a compliment inside, but at the same time she realizes you have doubts about her looks. You can still make a small compliment later in the conversation, but try to find something other than “You have beautiful eyes!”

More on the mistakes you shouldn’t make in online dating the next days.

P.S. There is a brand-new (2008) 224-page e-book called “The Online Game” out now. If you thought, you already knew all about online dating, GET READY!