1) What is one-itis?

One-itis is defined as an infatuation with another individual who does not return those same feelings. One-itis victims can usually be seen pining over a single individual, constantly overanalyzing every situation, and asking his friends what he can do “to get this girl”.

2) How do you get over one-itis?

Step 1- Delete her number and name from her cell phone. If she calls, tell her you “have to do … I’ll talk to you later.”
Step 2- Get rid of any pictures of her. You’re only defeating yourself by keeping them around.
Step 3- Delete your e-mail transactions and her messager screenname, in addition to any online connections that you may reach her at. Don’t block her. You don’t hate her; you just don’t care anymore. She is not special.
Step 4- Avoid places that she frequents for a period of time. If you work with her, that’s your fault for getting involved with your coworker.
Step 5-You’re not angry at her; you’re just moving on to bigger and better.
Step 6- Surround yourself with friends. Sarge immediately.

3) But what if she’s special; she’s different; she’s perfect for me?

There are 3.5 billion women out there. So you just coincidentally tripped and fell into “the one”? There’s a statistically higher chance of being struck by lightning three times than that being your “one special girl”.

4) Then why is she “perfect” for me?

Because males tend to rosetint and accentuate positive characteristics of women they feel they have a chance with. Try being critical of her one day. Notice how she sports lovehandles, or has no common sense.

5) But I feel I have a chance …

She was either nice to you once or is still nice to you, but won’t have sex with you because she likes feeling wanted. Thus, she likes having you around so that she can feel sexy, but she’s not going to have sex with you. Don’t feed her ego and kick yourself in the balls day in and day out. She’s not special. You, on the other hand, are special, because when you realize that you can get ANY girl, one single girl means nothing to you.

6) How can I make sure I never get one-itis again?

Unlike what you would normally do in most situations (stop talking to women altogether), the goal here is to remain in contact with as many women as possible. This allows you to keep a “there’s always more fish in the sea” perspective.

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Over 90% of communication is non-verbal. People get much more information from your body language and your tone than from your words.

Here are 5 simple body language tips that you can use right away:

1. Smile. Smile! SMILE! Most guys are so worried about what to say, how to react etc. so they almost always forget to smile when approaching! Or they come up with a fake smile. Practice smiling in front of a mirror. If you are smiling, your brain adapts automatically and puts you in a better mood. And, when you smile and are friendly, it also puts her in a better mood.

2. Speak louder. Most men are aftraid to speak up, because they don’t like to be judged by others. Forget about the others – they are too busy thinking about what others (including you) are thunking of them!

3. Speak slower. Confident people don’t talk like they are in a hurry. Also, if you slow down your talking, you’ll be much easier to understand (especially in loud clubs).

4. Eliminate nervous tics. Look at some videos of youself – do you have some tics that you need to get rid of? Silly hand gestures, stupid grimaces or eye twitches? Write down what you notice and try to eliminate them.

5. Don’t hold your drink in front of your chest. Most guys do this and you don’t want to be like most guys, don’t you? Leave your drink at the bar or keep it low. But don’t become Jerry Seinfeld’s “walking around, looking around” guy with in first place. Approach people, socialize!

For more tips on body language, I recommend to check out Andy Yosha’s brand-new Daygame Blueprint. If you don’t know who Andy Yosha is, check out these videos:

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P.S. For more information, check out Revelation, it’s really worth the money.

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For more great pickup routines, check out the Routines Manual.

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The “Ideal Guy” Routine is about letting her describe her dream guy. Simply ask her what her dream guy looks like, ask her he’s wearing, what his hair looks like, what his voice sounds like, what he says to her, how she feels in his arms …

The idea here is to get her into the state where is she totally free from social constraints and where she can enjoy herself. So she thinks about and experiences the feelings, but WHO is she talking to? YOU.

Basically she gets confused and thinks she is feeling that way about You when she is actually feeling that way about some other, maybe non-existing guy (the dream guy, her idealisation).

She likes him, but is talking to You. You are the one making her feel the way she does.
Just by being with you and seeing you and hearing you and touching you, she gets these feelings. Basically she transfers what she wants from the guy over to you.

The other benefit of this routine is that girls will admit their sexual needs when you are not talking about yourself and you ARE talking about some movie star or something … For example:

You: what would you do if Brad Pitt walked in here right now?
Her: I would seduce him any way I can!
You: How would you seduce Brad Pitt?

So, at this point she will reveal what she would do to convince a man she really wants to be
with her. Getting all hot and bothered along the way of course … And since you’re in the vicinity … ;)

For more routines, simply get the Routines Manual.

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