How to Pick Up Girls on the Street – Without Asking for the Number
A lot of guys are able to start a conversation with a girl – even on the street – but then there is always an awkward moment when you want to ask for her number, but don’t have enough self-confidence to do it or to do it in a “relaxed” way. And she instantly feels it – and starts to feel queasy…
Asking for her number can be difficult – especially talking about a girl you’ve just met on the street! But actually, there is a way to stay connected without asking for her number. Let’s call it the Facebook Method:
1) Go to a girl and ask her opinion on something (for example say that you want to buy a friend a good perfume, but don’t know which one…(Remember: you have to smile when you approach!)
2) Show or tell her that you are impressed with her answer – without overdoing it. If she says “I don’t know” just ask what kind of perfume she uses.
3) Finally, say “thanks” and pretend to roll off…Turn your upper body, but
4) Then, simply turn back and say with a confident voice: â€œHey! Are you on facebook? You seem to be an expert on fashion/â€¦ Maybe I will contact you for further advice.â€ Smile.
The reason why you are not asking for her number is that a girl is much more likely to give a guy she has just met her online contact info than her mobile number. Thereâ€™s no real commitment for her in giving you her online contact information. Itâ€™s not such a big deal as giving her number to a stranger who probably only wants to get in her pants. Facebook is a social interaction platform and girls love to check out new guys online. And if she doesnâ€™t like you, she still can ignore you.
This way you can ask a lot of girls and actually get in touch with them without displaying an obvious interest in them. If she says sheâ€™s not on facebook, keep cool and ask her about her email address. No matter what she says stay friendly and relaxed as if youâ€™re doing this all the time. Keep in mind: girls often act bitchy to test your reaction (the so called “shit test”).
Keep in mind: Smile and try to talk with a friendly but confident voice. Practice in front of a mirror if you want. Actually, about 80 % of the communication is nonverbal. So, itâ€™s more about how you approach (body language, voice, timing) than what you say.
Even better than a mirror is a video tape of you. Tape yourself on video to see how other people perceive you. It really gives you a reality check. Practice as long as you finally like â€œthisâ€ guy on the tape and your results with girls will skyrocket as you will become much more self-confident. And self-confidence is what girls are really looking for in a guy as it demonstrates a high status.
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