Here is a simple routine to get her/ them interested. Simply say you recently had a discussion with a friend and need a female opinion on something (yes, you can always use an opinion opener). Then ask:
“Do you think most men know what women really want?” She/ they probably will laugh or seem bored. Don’t worry, your follow-up is what should get her/ them intrigued:
“I think most men might THINK they know, but I think almost every man makes one, huge, critical mistake when it comes to women…” Wait until you notice they really want to hear the mistake every man is making.
“The mistake is that they don’t recognize that in each woman there are actually TWO women… the natural woman and the culturally programmed woman. The culturally programmed woman is the one with all the rules and all the roles… all the restrictions, constrictions… all the shouldn’ts, shoulds, don’ts, can’ts, mustn’ts…etc.
But the natural woman….that’s the woman right there at the core… where you keep your most exciting memories… where you ponder fantasies… daydreams… amazing possibilities… the things you would do if no one were watching and no one… even your best friends… would ever, ever know about…
Most men just do things that trigger the culturally programmed woman… But when a man… a rare man…can touch a woman in that special place in all those special ways you LONG to be touched… in ways you maybe even can’t admit to yourself… then WOW… an almost complete transformation takes place…and you start blossoming way beyond what you ever even thought possible.
So I think the smart man is the man who has the realization that that place is there… waiting and longing…even inspite the fact that women often have to lock all of that away… and yet they are still there…”
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